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Job and career: the weapons of a woman

Knowingly, the lady next to me is nodding towards me. “It´s exactly the same for me” she whispers to me, while the seminar trainer is giving instructions to an actress in order to show the potential for conflict of female leaders. “I act exactly like my male colleagues. And what do I get for it? A bad performance evaluation. I´d be too dominant and aggressive.” I nod towards her. “Same for me.“ Excited, I listen to the tips of the trainer. “Allow your femininity“ was one of her mpearlsantras. I raise my hand, “Which concrete tips do you have here?” The trainer looks over to me and says, “Pearl necklace and slightly tilt your head while listening. That always works.”

Somewhat helpless, I hold the pearl necklace in front of the black turtleneck sweater. I simply can´t convince myself to buy that. It was never mine, turtleneck? Pearls? Have you already seen a natural scientist at work wearing posh jewellery? I feel like a 50-year old economics student. Crestfallen, I leave the changing room and put the pieces back in their place. “Goodbye” the saleswoman is singing behind me. I can only nod and think to myself, “never in my life.” I firmly stride along the main road. The way I walk, the clicking of my high heels could be part of a marching song. I have to think of the trainer from the career coaching and her oh-so-wonderful tip. Screw that! And her damn pearl necklace and turtleneck as well.…

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